Word of mouth

January 5, 2010

Men speak well. Women talk well. There is only a ‘historical’ difference there. Men want to be understood. Women want to be listened. I might be wrong in my interpretations but my limited wisdom and narrow experiences make me mention this.

Its beautifully said that both men and women do full justice to their eardrums implant. The male gender uses one at time. The female both at a time immediately followed by the oral cavity.

Men species are brilliant in limited conversation and expressing more by little. Their opposite sex usually get a pleasure in conveying every nanometer. That’s why probably female teachers get liked faster.

I am terribly fond of one liners and have formed a group on FB wherein members can contribute their original wits and liners. The group hardly receives any female contributions. Perhaps the place is an injustice to their descriptive skills. It was fun to read a lady friend of mine contributing a whole story to convey a one line message.

The more a women talks, the more she gets empowered. Empowerment of expression, Power of being heard. Power of contributing. Lesser she remembers that the listener is a member of either of the sexes.

Men enjoy gestures. They love being understood with limited calorie “wastage “. In any male to male conversation, the topics shift like channels when u catch hold of a remote! Spontaneity and reflexes are thus better.

These realities have a huge tendency to be differed since I have some exceptional female friends :-)
But what ever said Men are from Mars, Women from Venus ; Men can’t listen and Women Can’t read maps.

Senescing.

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8 Responses to “Word of mouth”

  1. Sub said

    Good one. Inspired by just a few women though:). I am poor expresser but good at map reading. I have known men talking for hours and even my three yawns in a minute faild to convey. To me, it is person specific. Would love to read more on this topic.

  2. anil said

    i thought i played safe with a disclaimer at the end when i mentioned exceptional ;-)

  3. Sub said

    I have not known many women personally but professionally ,quite a bit of this write up is true. I encourage women to talk more in interviews. They crack ex-company details faster than male counterpart. I agreeon your take of one liners from women.
    Wisdom needs no verbal skill. :)
    You must write more on this topic.Well done.

  4. F Macquire said

    Hi Anil. after a long time. Good post. Saw Aahna’s response. Hope you are not the nexr dead ant tattoo..( I am sure you know about it)

    Freo

  5. Bernad said

    I agree completely. Women are poor listener themselves but blame men. I am surprised how they can share every detail about themselves and also other women.

  6. anil said

    hi freo…honestly no..bt i wd try making that out ;) ..btw, do u think in a hurry u misspelt ur last name ?

  7. anil said

    hi bernad..i wd like to continue addresing u as bernie. …it seems ur experiences r worth knowing ;)

  8. F Macquire said

    Haa..Its the same as Hauser and Houser or Xavier and Javier. I do three on average. Oh..you must listen to dead ant tattoo story and make a story out of it. India last names are big ..are they

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