Connectivity issues
March 12, 2010
My experience with humans is way back for more than three decades now. In these many years, my connections with most of them have been decent. As a toddler, a teen, an adolescent or an adult, life has connected me with some wonderful humans. From my parents to my existing friends or colleagues, I have experienced them in many altered forms.
There are people in my life, whom I have known closely for many years now. Closeness or proximity with people does not necessarily connect you to them. Years of association are no rules for clicking with someone.
Then there are types whom ‘you’ long to be with. Your decent efforts to persuade might not get a favor in return. Your successful connectivity with the person remains a one sided network. Out of reach message follows and you have no choice but to give up just because they didn’t choose to connect with you.
The special in your life are always the kinds whom you enjoy the most with. Not really these are the ones you know the most, but certainly the ones whom you have learned the most and vice versa.
Your preferred choice of people are always the one with whom you develop an instant connectivity. A good connectivity is an indication of a meaningful association which culminates into a strong bondage.
What connects you instantly with someone is seldom a matter of your choice. The instants of little togetherness leave you with no choice but welcome the rarity. Your instincts guide you to attempt a frequent connection just because you rejoice it. Your heart speaks out to yourself what the other can hear. You enjoy the moments of visual presence as equally as you enjoy the distance. You know pretty well, even your silence can be heard. You score high on differences but you still manage to convince yourself on similarities.
A family member, a colleague, a school mate, an acquaintance, a blog reader, a friend or an anonymous…connections happen. Sometimes they get stronger, sometimes they weaken.
There is no guarantee of an uninterrupted connection. Neither there is one to get connected. Just keep redialing. Who knows a wrong number could actually be a right one!
Senescing.
Boss..I have no choice but to agree with you verbatim. The best part of today’s blog is ” years of association do not guarantee connect.” It just happens.Its a rare gift to prize and treasure,flash of a smile and here it is,on the face of a stranger.
Must say, your blog is evolving.
Let your readers connect.
I have once connected in a wrong number. It became a strong bond for a long time before vanishing in thin air. You are right.Cnect happens and go weak. Still it is beautiful to keep connected. Life remains worthits salt then
Good writing and look forward to read more.
Hi Anil,
Earlier I thought She really markets your blog but now I find them worth reading. Keep it up buddy.
This is one topic close to my heart. I have connected with many people and sometime just one glance of a person does the trick. Ask Aahna
hi rajan..thanks..was very much tempted to write on this..glad u liked it..bt i mst thank aahna fr mktng it
Connects do not happen. They are creation of smart people. Some people are very goos at it and leave single soul alone. Hah…
Efforts to charge a fused battery is almost useless. Preserving it would only lead to corrosion. Smartness lies in disposing them off. True, connections dont happen.
I miss creativity in my life and with you not writing these days,its even worst..:) Hope to hear more..Some people miss it in their life so inspirations are needed..
very soon…it’s jst a temporary pause…wd surely shoot bk..thanks for wanting it
There is one part about connecting based on similarities. Another aspect is about people in whose presence you feel free to explore yourself and your potential. I think those connections are very strong.